Jane is a three-dimensional character with complex emotions and choices to make. Rory is flailing, lacking in common sense and - to be blunt - not a good person.
There’s plenty out there about women having to lean in, but we rarely talk about how men can also play their part by shuffling that fixed deck of cards. I have a few suggestions.
You can't understand what it's like to be publicly appraised for nothing but your perceived "hotness". This happens to me every single day when the sun comes out.